Sex Toys & Dual Stimulation: 4 Types of Toys for Clit + G-Spot Pleasure

Sex toys are amazing tools that can give us access to pleasure not possible through manual means. This pleasure can be shared, or enjoyed solo. It’s not objectively better than pleasure by hand (or by mouth or any other body part you may use), but it’s not objectively lesser either. It is, however, often easier to achieve certain sexual feats when there’s a toy involved.

One such feat is dual stimulation. Specifically, concurrent g-spot and clitoral pleasure, a sensation that can potentially bring about the fabled blended orgasm.


What’s a blended orgasm? As I explain in Types of Orgasm, “A blended orgasm is the merging of orgasms from multiple stimulation points. For example, some people who orgasm from simultaneous clitoral and g-spot pleasure hitting their peak say that the resulting orgasm is distinctly different from having “just” a clitoral or vaginal orgasm. And it’s often stronger as a result.”


Pleasure is not all about orgasm, and the type of orgasms we have are unique to our bodies. But exploring the possibilities can help us learn about our ever-changing sexual capabilities. If dual stimulation is something you’re interested in experimenting with, there are a number of toy types that can help you on your adventures.

Here are just a few.

 

Rabbit Vibrators 

When someone says “dual stimulation,” the first toy that hops to mind is probably the classic rabbit vibrator. Rabbit vibrators are one of the oldest – and arguably the most famous – sex toy designs (thanks, Sex and the City.) These vibrators have an internal arm typically designed for g-spot targeting, a smaller external arm to focus on the clitoris, and a short handle. 


In the past 35 years, rabbits have been released by most major sex toy companies, often with innovative features to help them stand out from the crowd. Take, for example, the Commotion Cha Cha from BMS Factory, or the Happy Rabbit Thrusting Vibrator from Lovehoney, which have self-thrusting shafts. Or the Duo from Womanizer, which has air pulsation instead of vibration. Some rabbits have stepped up to provide anal stimulation too: the Happy Rabbit Elite by Lovehoney has an anal beads attachment! 


The key to a great rabbit is finding the right fit for your body. That means finding the right shape and the right kind of stimulation, which can be surprisingly tricky!  


The distance between your clitoris and vagina is highly individual, as is the location and sensitivity of your g-spot. Some rabbits, like the Nova from We-Vibe, have a flexible clitoral arm so you can get a good fit and thrust the toy without losing contact.


Most rabbits focus on vibration, and shake things up with interesting designs like the Lovelife Adventure by Ohmibod. If your clit prefers air pulsation, or vibration alone isn’t enough stimulation for your g-spot, you might have to keep your eyes peeled for something unique. The Lush Iris from Blush Novelties meets both these needs, so there’s definitely options out there! 


Couple’s Vibrators

While any sex toy can be a “couple’s toy,” the term is usually used to describe a specific type of toy: a hinge-styled vibrator meant to be worn vaginally during penetrative sex. The internal arm tends to be much slimmer than those seen on rabbit vibrators, because these toys have to leave room for a moving penis or strap-on.

You can use these clever toys to ensure dual stimulation during partnered sex, or use them solo for a less filling but no less satisfying blended orgasm.

The most famous couple’s vibrator is probably the Sync by We-Vibe. Its broad clitoral arm, strong vibrations, and versatile bend that allows for a comfortable fit have made it a favorite for a reason. We-Vibe’s newest couple’s vibe, the Chorus, takes this concept and enhances it with a more prominent g-spot bump.

Another couple’s toy is the RockHer from Wet For Her . The rectangular arm can be used to frame the clitoris instead of stimulating it directly, which makes it an appealing choice for people with sensitive clits.


Wearable Dildos aka Strapless Strap-Ons

Vibrators like the Sync are not the only toys created with couples specifically in mind. Another toy designed primarily for partnered use is the strapless strap-on dildo. You can use them for their intended purpose (fucking someone) or you can just wear them for masturbation. The latter can be incredibly affirming for some transmasculine folks.

Despite the name, strapless dildos work best when paired with straps – ie an o-ring harness – like the Regal Dutchess Harness by CalExotics. These toys provide the wearer with g-spot stimulation from the short insertable bulb, and clitoral stimulation from texturing to grind on or a vibrating clit bump.

Just like rabbit vibes, there’s a variety of deviations from the classic strapless shape, which means you have options! If your clit needs direct contact, the ShareVibe from Fun Factory and the Vibrating Union from Wet for Her have a prominent clitoral ridge for targeted sensation. The Happy Rabbit Strapless from Lovehoney even has rabbit-style ears for clit stimulation! If your body is picky about vibrations, strapless dildos like the Temptasia Luna by Blush Novelties comes with a strong, rumbly bullet – but you can swap it out for a similarly sized bullet of your choice.

Even if you’re not using your strapless on another participant, you can hold the shaft to shift the toy to the best angle for your pleasure.


Do-It-Yourself Dual Stimulation

If ready-made rabbits aren’t meeting your expectations, it might be time to DIY!

Using two independent toys is always an option, but for those of us who seek uncomplicated pleasure, there’s a less cluttered answer: cock rings. These toys were created to help sustain erections and sometimes to delay ejaculation, but many are outfitted with vibrations to further pleasure the receiver during penetrative sex.

In need of a customized tool for simultaneous clitoral and g-spot pleasure? You can pair a vibrating ring with a favorite dildo, g-spot vibrator, or penis, and get your clit in on the action. You can even use a cock ring with most self-thrusters to make things even easier.

This is especially great news for folks with a favorite g-spot toy, like the Splendid from Uberrime or the Mustang from Vixen Creations, both of which have g-spot finessing curves so good they’ve cultivated their own fanbases.

Is your clit a connoisseur of vibration and in need of power and rumble? The Mio from Je Joue and the Atom Plus from Hot Octopuss are strong enough for royalty. Need a more pronounced shape to grind on? Consider the Charged Combo Cock Ring from Screaming O or the Happy Rabbit Control Ring by Lovehoney. Intending to thrust to better milk your G-Spot? Try a ring with a long clitoral stimulator like the Optimale C-Ring from Doc Johnson or the Work It Charged from Screaming O, which are less likely to fully lose contact with your clit while you’re doing short thrusts.

Creating a combination for dual stimulation for yourself means your experience is customized to your individual needs. You know your body best, so don’t be afraid to experiment with your toy chest! Just make sure your insertable toy is wide enough to sport the bonus ring.

 

Betty Butch is a queer, sex-positive blogger who reviews pleasure products and writes about identity and kink at bettybutch.com. You can find her on Twitter via @betty_butch.


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