5 Sexy Scenarios for Using a Squirting Dildo

Did you know some dildos can squirt? 

The Squirting Cum Dildo by Strap-On-Me and Big Shot by Evolved Novelties (which also vibrates!) are body-safe silicone dildos that ejaculate on command. Simply put in a viscous liquid (like a water-based lube or hybrid lube) and wait for the right moment to release!

Replicating the experience of ejaculating in or on a partner (or yourself) can be so sexy: the anticipation, the fluid splatter, the act of temporarily leaving your “mark.” It’s no surprise sex toy makers have sought to fill the jizzing dildo niche. 

So what can you do with a dildo that shoots liquids? Here’s a few ideas:


Facial feature. 

Just picture it: your partner sitting naked on their knees with their head tipped back. Thick drops of cum (or Sliquid Silk) stripe their face, dripping down their chin or onto their chest.

Coming on a partner’s face can be a show of erotic possessiveness, consensual degradation or domination, or even worship. It can also just be a fun, sexy end to a thorough dildo blowjob. The mood is yours to choose!

Squirting dildos can be a little finicky to control, so it might take some practice to ejaculate in stripes and on-target. You definitely don’t want to blast someone in the eyes! Shooting some watered-down hand soap (which is less pricey than your lube – but it’s for practice only, don’t put soap in your holes!) at specific wall tiles isn’t a bad way to justify an extra long shower. 


Cream filling. 

A “creampie” is the slang term for ejaculating inside someone (or something), usually with the desire to see the ejaculate drip or pool out afterwards. A squirting dildo gives you the option to incorporate this into strap-on sex. 

There are lots of reasons you might find creampies hot. You might enjoy the “mess” of bodily fluids, or have a “breeding” kink (the idea of becoming pregnant – usually fictionally, through role play – is hot AF.) Seeing “proof” of what you’ve done with your partner might be arousing and/or gender affirming. 

If eating that cream filling is part of what appeals to you, you can literally sweeten the deal with some flavored lube. Peepshow’s collection is sugar and glycerin-free!


A real mouthful.

Can you imagine the satisfaction of your next dildo blowjob ending with a thick dollop of faux cum on your tongue? Maybe you’ll greedily swallow it while your partner wipes the silicone head against your lips. Or maybe you’ll just stick your tongue out and wait for permission. Either way, you’ve earned it.

An ejaculation can add to the realism of oral play with sex toys. It allows the receiver to further participate in the act, and adds a reward (in addition to, of course, arousal and praise) to be given and taken. 

And same as the last point: flavored lube can make the experience more pleasant. Caramel flavored jizz anyone?


Double trouble.

Squirting dildos aren’t just for folks who don’t have ejaculating penises. You can pair them with a penis of your own, either wielding the dildo by hand or utilizing a double penetration strap-on harness like the Deuce “Male” Harness.

Doubling up means twice the cum. If your partner has two holes and is willing, you can squirt simultaneously in both. Or, if they’re able to accommodate the added girth, you can double up in one orifice. Imagine letting the ejaculating dildo off first, and thrusting through the mess. Hot!

Similarly, if your partner doesn’t have an ejaculating penis but you do, they can use the dildo to simulate jacking off together. See who has better aim when they finish…


Extra toppings.

Some people find bodily fluids incredibly hot – and want to be absolutely covered or filled with them. Your interest might be based in reality (like enjoying the idea of being finished on/in by numerous partners in an orgy or gangbang) or fiction (such as cum inflation, the fantasy of swelling up from being filled with impossible amounts of ejaculate.)

A squirting dildo can be refilled as many times as you want, allowing you to indulge in your fantasies through role play. The cumshots add up, however; if you don’t want to deplete your lube supply but you’re still looking to maximize the splash zone, try diluting your Sliquid Silk with water.

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Betty Butch (they/she) is a queer sex and relationships writer. By blogging about their experiences as a fat, trans, autistic person, they hope to help change the narrative of who has sex and what sex "should" be. Follow them on Twitter and Instagram.

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