I'm a guy, and the I've found the Solina Spotta to be the holy grail of dildos for anal play and prostate orgasms. Additionally, I've loved it so much to practice my deepthroating skills that I just ordered the Solina Maxima to push myself even further.
This is the perfect combination of hard, soft and silky. For me, it's also exactly the right size for anal. I'm no size king. For years, I'd buy dildos my now-ex-wife would like, and she WAS a size queen. So every dildo I had for my own fun was just too big and painful for my own abilities. After our divorce, I found myself dildo-less, and it occurred to me that I far prefer an average size real cock to a massive one, so I started me new collection with some smaller dildos. Those were far better at pleasing me than big ones, even if, yeah, I look forward to be able to take almost any size. but it wasn't until the Solina came around that I found a dildo that felt anything like the real thing -- AND one that pushes my limits just a bit. I find that I have to insert a silicone plug for a while in order to be ready for the big head of the Spotta. Once it's inside, though, that big head feels absolutely amazing on my prostate -- guaranteed whole-body orgasm literally within seconds.
As an oral trainer, I love it as well because it mimics the size and shape of the type of partner I like most -- big enough to impress and fill but not gargantuan. I particularly like the bigger head -- it challenges me to make room in my throat and feel that head slide to that exquisite spot that tells me I've taken it as deep as it will go.
Last, the suction cup and balls! The suction cup works unbelievably well -- it has never come off the shower wall even when I pound myself against it. And the balls feel so realistic when they hit home. They also work really well as a grip if I happen not to be using the suction cup.
Overall, it's the best dildo I have ever used. I will definitely be introducing this to my next steady female partner. I've got to believe women must love this dildo as much as I do.