How to Get a Bigger, Harder Erection for Your Partner

What someone desires in the bedroom varies from person to person. Still, there are many situations in which someone would want to be larger for their partner or last longer during sex.

The fact of the matter is, penises don’t always work the way we want them to. It’s quite common to come across a situation where you might orgasm quicker than you wanted, or even find difficulty remaining hard during sex. Millions of men each year struggle with some form of erectile challenge but there are ways to combat this for yourself and your partner. 


Start With Health

Before diving into products that assist with maintaining a harder, bigger erection, begin at the core of it all: Health. Taking care of your body and your mind can make all the difference regarding your performance in the bedroom and getting in the mood.

Diet and regular physical activity help with blood flow, lowering stress cortisol levels, and even confidence in the bedroom. If you feel better about yourself you will perform better or be in a better place to investigate ways to reach your sexual goals. 


Bring In The Pumps

Before grabbing a pump, make sure to have a conversation with your partner regarding your goals. Talking out any performance anxiety that you feel and your desire to give both of you an even better sexual experience can be a great way to anticipate the process. Beyond that, it’s important to ensure your partner knows that any changes you want to make have nothing to do with how sexy you find them and how much you want them. 

Penis Pumps are an amazing way to get a bigger, harder, and longer-lasting erection during sex. They are also a way to treat some levels of ED at home if you experience them. A penis pump is a rube that fits over your shaft and provides a vacuum. During pumping, you stimulate blood flow and increase the size and length of your penis temporarily. 

Using a pump can be a solo act and enhance your masturbation, or a way to prepare for your partner. Whatever the case, pumps have come a long way, and some even use water-powered technology instead of air pressure to give you up to 2 inches of extra length. 


How to Use a Penis Pump

Penis pumps are meant to be comfortable ways to get harder and bigger. If you are a beginner, this is where to start:

1.) Pumps will not tear or rip at pubic hair. Still, it is advised to shave or trim where the silicone seal will be placed to ensure the pump can properly suction against your skin during use. Too much pubic hair may impact the pumping experience and benefits. 

2.) Apply water-based lubrication to the seal of the pump and around the shaft and base of the shaft. This allows for more comfort during use and will also ensure a proper seal around the skin once you start pumping! 

3.) Insert your flaccid penis into the tube. You may have a tube with a squeeze pump handle that allows you to control the vacuum pressure, or the pump may use water to create the vacuum. This encourages blood flow to the penis and you will start to get erect. 

4.) When you are hard, place a silicone cock ring around the base of your cock (and balls, if you’d like!) and remove your cock from the tube. 


The C-Ring Cherry On Top

Adding a silicone cock ring to the base of your cock or around your cock and balls after pumping helps keep that blood in your erect penis. Having a cock ring that vibrates, stretches, or wraps around both the cock and your balls is a great way to add some extra stimulation. Another benefit of cock rings? It’s not something you have to set up or prepare! Just place it on when you are hard and let it do its magic.

If you get a vibrating cock ring, that also provides extra pleasure for your partner while also helping you maintain blood flow. In the end, it’s all about what your goals are, what works for you, and what brings pleasure to you both.  


Safety First

When using a penis pump it’s important to take your safety into account. 

  1. Always make sure that your penis pump has a vacuum release in case you need to stop immediately. This will release the pressure and allow you to comfortably remove the penis pump. 
  2. Do not use the pump if you are experiencing pain, discomfort, or bruising. 
  3. It’s not recommended that you use a penis pump for longer than 30 minutes or more than twice a day. It is also not recommended that you wear a silicone cock ring for longer than 30 minutes at a time. 

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